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      <title>What are the steps in a divorce?</title>
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      <description>When you’re wrestling the emotional turmoil of divorce, a chaotic legal process is the last thing you need. After all, divorce is ultimately meant to resolve the situation, not worsen it. In an effort to reduce stress, this post outlines the basics of getting a divorce in California in six steps. Please note that this […]
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          When you’re wrestling the emotional turmoil of divorce, a chaotic legal process is the last thing you need. After all, divorce is ultimately meant to resolve the situation, not worsen it. In an effort to reduce stress, this post outlines the basics of getting a divorce in California in six steps. Please note that this outline is no substitute for speaking with a lawyer. Without adequate legal representation, you could seriously damage your legal rights to custody, support, and an equitable division of property.
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          Divorce can be messy. For more support, our Resources page and the California Courts Self-Help website are excellent places to start.
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      <description>Litigation is costly and time-consuming. Especially in family cases, the fight may be harder than you expect. Not only is the financial reality burdensome, but the personal nature of these matters is exhausting. Pendente lite (Latin for “pending litigation”) orders exist in order to maintain the status quo—particularly when minors are involved. As we discussed […]
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                    Litigation is costly and time-consuming. Especially in family cases, the fight may be harder than you expect. Not only is the financial reality burdensome, but the personal nature of these matters is exhausting. Pendente lite (Latin for “pending litigation”) orders exist in order to maintain the status quo—particularly when minors are involved.
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                    Pursuing a pendente lite order in a family law matter does not hinder either party’s ability to make changes after the fact. A case will ultimately only be formally decided in court, in accordance with the circumstances present at the time of hearing or trial. With that said, a pendente lite order does have the practical benefit of establishing a status quo between the parties regarding shared parenting arrangements, which a court may be reluctant to change later. In short, pendente lite orders can set the stage for permanent (or post-dissolution) rulings.
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      <title>Separation and Section 70</title>
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      <description>How do you know when a marriage has ended? Can you quantify it? If we handed you a calendar and asked you to circle an exact date, could you? As we know from our website’s Divorce and Separation page, California is a “no-fault” divorce state. From the moment you’re married, there’s an assumption of community […]
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    , California is a “no-fault” divorce state. From the moment you’re married, there’s an assumption of community property: everything I make or lose is now everything you make or lose. If that sounds great, remember: debt. When (and if) things go awry, you are not only entitled to half of everything we’ve built together, you’re responsible for half of my mistakes, half of my hardships. Although this approach aims at equity, without proper preparation, it may transform into just the opposite. More to the point of the importance of 
    
  
  
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                    Consistently over the course of California history, family courts have struggled to determine separation dates. More than a simple marking the end of a relationship, a separation date determines where to draw the legal line through the tangle of community finances. It is crucial for understanding where one spouse’s assets begin and the other’s ends (think income, especially). Prior to Section 70’s enactment this year, California courts had decided to paint a “bright line” by precisely defining what constitutes a separation. Through the case 
    
  
  
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                    While this may sound like a positive step towards clarity, there are countless reasons why a couple may want to lead separate lives under the same roof. As Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Lewis identified, these motives may be economic, familial, religious, or so on. A couple could desire economic circumstances relating to cost of alternate housing, qualification for rent control or government subsidies, or financial hardship causing impaired credit; [there could be] health reasons requiring a specially equipped home or close proximity to required medical care; homeschooling of children; operation of a family business; access to the internet or availability of the family computer; absence during the week but present for weekend care of the couple’s children; restricted transportation availability because of limited number of vehicles, or the need to be close to public transportation or employment; [and one mustn’t underestimate] the social stigma of no longer living together; faith-based convictions and fear of adverse religious reactions…necessary transitional requirements to accommodate needs of a couple’s children; and victims of domestic violence who may feel trapped to remain in an unsafe relationship. Honorable Thomas Trent Lewis, Marriage of Davis, 37 FAMILY LAW NEWS, No. 3 [2], [2015] at 12. Moreover, there are countless exceptions to the rule; and prior to Section 70, a court would not have been able to divide assets if any of them were at play. Unless a couple intended to separate and fulfilled the requirement of separate housing, their property would not be able to reach a judgment in court.
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                    Section 70 was created specifically to reverse the Davis ruling. Now, all that matters is intent to separate and action to support it. As Judge Lewis’s list demonstrates, ambiguity is necessarily part of the divorce process. If a couple does not stipulate how their end date will be decided in a pre-martial agreement, painful personal details may be used as fodder in the public fight for property. Why complicate an already complicated situation?
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      <title>Cohabitation Does Not Make a Marriage</title>
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      <description>After the trials of twentieth-century feminist movements, it’s not a leap to suggest that marriage is regarded skeptically today. You need look no further than the U.S. Census Bureau Figure MS-2, which depicts the sharp rise in marital age. Now, when marriage is entered upon, it’s not the kneejerk fix-all or rite of passage it […]
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      <description>Did you notice those restraining orders hiding on the back of your divorce paperwork? If not, I don’t blame you—they’re easy to miss. Automatic Temporary Restraining Orders (ATROs) or Standard Family Law Restraining Orders (as they’re now called) are four mutual orders that automatically come into effect when filing for divorce or legal separation. They […]
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                    Did you notice those restraining orders hiding on the back of your divorce paperwork? If not, I don’t blame you—they’re easy to miss.
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                    Simply put, these orders protect children and marital assets. As soon as the petitioner files, the ATROs immediately bind him/her. As soon as the respondent is personally served, the ATROs bind him/her equally.
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                    They last for the duration of dissolution proceedings, in order to prevent the following:
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         California is a “no fault” divorce state, which means that a spouse or domestic partner asking for divorce does not have to prove that the other spouse or domestic partner did something wrong. Instead, the individual claims “irreconcilable differences.” In other words, the couple agrees to disagree. No fault divorce entitles both parties to a fair and equal settlement (which includes division of assets and debts, child custody and visitation, and spousal and child support).
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          Addiction is one of the leading contributing factors to divorce. Although it is irrelevant to no fault divorce as a whole, it can carry immense weight in settlement proceedings—especially in regards to child custody and visitation. All decisions regarding a child are made on the basis of the “Best Interest Standard.” This means that a court acts with the child’s best possible health, safety, and welfare in mind. It follows that a judge is less likely to entrust an addicted parent with a child. Often a court will attempt to ensure the child’s safety by ordering the parent complete mandatory drug tests, attend Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous meetings, and participate in supervised visitation. In the most extreme cases, a court may award full custody to the sober parent.
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      <title>The Dreaded Prenup</title>
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      <description>Premarital agreements have a bad rap. Often, they’re construed as insults to romance–cold, calculated bets against a relationship’s survival. Countless films and T.V. shows uphold this reputation, to name a few: The Good Wife (2009-2016), How I Met Your Mother (2005-2014), The Wolf of Wall Street (2013), Entourage (2004-2011), Sex and the City (1998-2004), Intolerable […]
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                    In fact, premarital agreements can save a lot of future hurt. According to California Family Code §1610-1617, they can stipulate:
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                    Premarital agreements must be agreed upon by both parties. There must be full disclosure, no coercion, and knowledge of exactly what is being agreed upon.
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                    Essentially, a premarital agreement sets up a financial safety net if things go badly. They save time, money, and sanity in a dizzying situation. Indeed, some couples—young, asset-less duos seeking to build a life together—may not be significantly impacted initially. But the power of a pre-marital agreement transcends the present to protect all future assets. It ensures the protection of property should someone die or divorce. The emotional stress of establishing a premarital agreement is not up for debate; yet in comparison to the toll that years of messy dissolution can take (especially if there are children involved), any awkwardness is negligible.
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         Historically, the laborious gathering of detrimental evidence was done through private investigators or subpoenas for credit card statements and phone records. The advent of social media ensures the same damning evidence is effortlessly at the fingertips of opposing counsel. It appears that people share intimate personal details online based on a false expectation that information will remain private. The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers says 81 percent of its 1,600 members have used or faced evidence from social networking sites over the last five years.
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          No-fault divorce has been adopted across the country. As a result, evidence of wrongdoing does not have the direct impact it used to have under the former standard, fault-based divorce. Even so, information available through social networking sites can be costly. Evidence gathered from Facebook can undermine credibility in court. Consider a client who claims he can’t pay a set amount of spousal or child support. If opposing counsel discovers pictures he posted of a lavish vacation or a new luxury car, the client has tarnished his reputation. Such evidence can be used substantively in favor of a support increase.
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          Under both Federal and State rules, character evidence is generally impermissible in civil cases. However, in child custody determinations, courts are allowed to consider the “fitness” of each parent. In California, courts must consider the child’s health, safety, and welfare. A parent’s custody or visitation rights can be limited in cases where there is evidence of a parent’s drug, alcohol, or sex abuse; where there is excessive discipline or emotional abuse by a parent or a parent’s significant other; or where the mental and physical health of the parents is questionable.
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          A seemingly innocuous photo of one parent slinging back a few beers at a sports bar or clubbing in a mini-skirt could reflect poorly on one’s fitness as a parent. Even guardians ad litem (court appointed representatives who advocate for a child’s best interest) are scouring social network sites when deciding which parent to recommend. In divorce or custody cases where evidence is particularly inflammatory, many clients choose to settle rather than be exposed as engaging in immoral or illegal behavior.
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          Regardless of whether you are presently going through divorce, remember that the Internet is a public forum. Once something has been posted, it can never truly be deleted. Don’t post anything online that you wouldn’t want your mother to see.
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         The emotional strain of a divorce is never limited to the former spouses involved. Divorce creates a confusing and distressing time for children as well. With the frequency of divorce today, more children grow up juggling households. They have to find balance between two literal and metaphorical houses. Your child may not currently understand the deeper emotional rifts that have led to the divorce, but they will always ultimately feel the absence of a once stronger family bond. If you and your former spouse have decided to continue co-parenting, here are a few tips to ease the transition for your child:
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             Above all, do not confide in your child about damaging circumstances of divorce and do not demean your former spouse in their presence.
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            Find a good therapist to confide in. The maintenance of a healthy relationship with both parents is vital to your child’s emotional well-being.
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             Maintain a healthy family relationship.
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            Although your marriage has ended, your family still exists. Remaining an involved parent should always be a priority. Set an example for your children on how to move on from past conflicts. Be as cordial as possible with your former spouse.
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             Solve disagreements concerning your child privately, peacefully, and efficiently.
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            Your child is never to be used as a bargaining chip. Remember that both parents should be working towards the benefit of the child. Solicitation of input from your child is almost always inappropriate.
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             Remain as consistent as possible in both households.
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            This ranges from doing your best to maintain similar household rules (such as bedtimes and school work). Children thrive where there are predictable, stable systems in place.
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             Allow your child to grow at a comfortable pace.
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            Don’t force changing environments on your child. Let them mentally adjust post-divorce. Talk to your child and explain any frustrations they may have. If your child is experiencing uncontrollable emotions or unusual behavior, take them to a therapist who has experience dealing with children of divorce.
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         When divorce is imminent, finances may seem like the cherry on top of an awful situation. The level of complexity and thoroughness required is mind boggling. It doesn’t have to be. Here are several tips to help you in approaching your finances:
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              Look at your credit history.*
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             Don’t have a credit card? Apply for them now, and work towards establishing a good credit history. If your current credit history could be better, make sure to pay creditors now before the divorce begins. Start improving your credit history pronto!
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              Find out exactly what your spouse earns.
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             This is easy if your spouse gets a regular pay stub. If they’re self-employed, owns their own business, or for whatever reason, gets part of their salary in cash, make sure you keep track of the money coming in for several months.
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              Know your household budget and expenses.
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             Precise awareness of your average monthly expenditures as well as other monthly expenses will help determine potential spousal support or child support.
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              Inventory your household and family possessions.
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             A list of your belongings will help you make educated decisions when it comes time to split the property.
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              Try to determine and tackle family debt before divorce.
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             Allocating marital debt is one of the most difficult items to negotiate. Make sure this remains separate from any debt that was incurred by one spouse alone (“non-marital debt”).
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              Have a way to access money of your own.
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             Divorce can be expensive. Make sure you have your own money saved up for any and all situations.
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              Gather all your financial documents.
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             This can be a pretty hefty task.** Organization is key. Not only will having all your ducks in a row help your divorce move more efficiently, it will also inform important decisions and agreements you will have to make down the line. So search for any and all financial documents and make sure to keep them labeled, organized, and easy to find. Here is what you need to gather:
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             Income tax returns, including W-2, 1099, and K-1 forms from the last five years.
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             Business financial statements for you and your spouse. Include a net worth statement, as well as income statements.
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             Include all income information since your last tax return.
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             Personal property tax returns.
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             Banking information including monthly bank statements, retirement accounts, savings and loan institutions, credit unions, etc.
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             Financial statements that had been prepared by you or your spouse at any time in the last five years.
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             Any loan applications made in the last five years.
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             Brokering statements.
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             Stocks, bonds, and mutual funds.
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             Pension, money purchase plans, profit sharing, deferred compensation agreement, and retirement plans that you or your spouse have through a corporation.
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             Wills and trust agreements executed by you or wherein you have a present or contingent interest in the past five years.
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             Life insurance or certificate of life insurance policies now in existence.
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             General insurance.
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             Outstanding debts owed by you or to you (including those co-signed by you).
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             Business records or ledgers in your possession.
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             Real property, including any deeds of property you and your spouse may have an interest in – together or separately, as well as all purchase agreements, mortgages, notes, property tax statements, rental or lease agreements, appraisals, and any expenses associated with all properties.
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             Sale and option agreements on any real estate owned by you, either alone or via another person or entity, jointly or as a trustee or guardian.
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             Any personal property. Include any and all documents on any furniture, artwork, fixtures, jewelry, antiques, collections, equipment, etc. that you own, either alone or jointly through another person or entity, i.e. trustee or guardian.
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             List of personal property owned by you prior to marriage, or any personal property acquired during the marriage via inheritance or as a gift.
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             Motor vehicles owned by you and your spouse, individually or jointly, in the last five years. Include all financing agreements.
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             Any partnership or joint venture agreements that you have been a party of during the marriage.
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          *”10 things to do if Divorce is imminent”, by Rich Stim (www.divorcecent.com)
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          **Created by the Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, in 2011 and amended 2014 (www.bedrockdivorce.com)
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      <description>Cancel jointly owned credit cards. Inform your spouse that you are cancelling joint credit accounts. If you continue to maintain such accounts, you will most likely be liable for debt incurred by your spouse. You can freeze accounts by telling the credit card company you are going through a divorce. Protect your savings. If you […]
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